About Our Child Lives

Our Story of Hope and Healing

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Our Child Lives was born out of heartbreak - but also out of faith.


In 2017, founder Lynn Gilkey experienced the unimaginable loss of her son, Ryan.

In her own words, “The first year after Ryan’s passing was a blur. I felt alone and stuck, like the world kept turning while I stood still in my grief.”


Through that darkness, God planted a seed - a calling to bring light to other mothers who were also mourning. What began as one woman’s healing journey has grown into a ministry of compassion, connection, and faith-driven restoration.


Our Mission:

Our Child Lives is a dedicated nonprofit focused on bereavement care to mothers mourning the loss of their child/children. It offers a sense of companionship through grief support groups, remembrance events, and healing activities designed to ease the isolation often experienced during mourning. The ministry's primary objective is to promote self-care, healing and to rekindle hope through faith and biblical promises.


What We Offer:

  • Support Groups: Safe, faith-based spaces to share and heal alongside other mothers who understand.
  • Remembrance Events: Gatherings to honor and celebrate the children who live forever in our hearts.
  • Healing Activities: Workshops and gatherings that nurture the mind, body, and spirit.
  • Grief Baskets: A gift of comfort and care to mothers newly facing loss.
  • Volunteer Network: A compassionate community serving with empathy and purpose.
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Frequently Asked Questions

  • What is Our Child Lives Ministry?

    Our Child Lives is a faith-based nonprofit organization dedicated to supporting mothers grieving the loss of a child. Through grief support groups, remembrance events, and healing activities, we aim to foster hope, healing, and community.

  • Who can participate in the grief support groups?

    Any mother who has experienced the loss of a child is welcome. You can join at any stage of your loss - whether recent or years past. We offer an 8-week “Hope in the Valley” grief support program led by trained volunteers. Participants must commit to confidentiality and respectful sharing.

  • When are your support group sessions?

    We meet for an 8-week course twice a year.  Once in July and then again in October.

  • Is there a cost to join the support group?

    There is a one-time registration fee which covers meals/ snacks and materials for the full 8- week sessions.

  • Are the facilitators licensed counselors?

    No. Our facilitators are Christian women with a heart for ministry. While not licensed therapists, they are committed to providing compassionate, faith-based support.

  • What kind of self-care resources do you offer?

    We provide guidance on physical and emotional self-care during grief, including Bible study, journaling, mindfulness, nature walks, and creative expression. These resources are shared during group sessions.

  • How can I get involved or volunteer?

    We welcome volunteers for events, support groups, and fundraising efforts. You can express interest via our contact form or email us directly at ourchildlives@gmail.com.

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  • Can I donate or sponsor an event?

    Yes. Sponsorships help fund grief sessions, remembrance events, and outreach. We welcome financial support, in-kind donations, and partnerships. Contact us to learn more.

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  • Is confidentiality maintained in support groups?

    Absolutely. All participants sign a confidentiality agreement. Sharing is encouraged in a safe, respectful, and judgment-free environment.

  • How can I give someone a "Grieving with Hope" gift basket?

    If you know someone who has lost a child recently, please feel free to fill out the form located via the button below.

    Request a Grief Basket

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